The Bold and the Beautiful

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2008
The Bold and the Beautiful
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Thu, 10-16-2008 - 12:00pm

Okay, now that I'm armed with the abbreviations, I'm ready to tell my tale.


I'm a MW and

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2007
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 1:50pm

My first suggestion is to leave out/delete the details of your current relationship or him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 2:00pm

To answer your question, well, to be honest, yes, you have.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 4:23am

While I am usually the open minded one, and a chronic cake eater, even I have to say that you have crossed a line that you just don't cross. What you are doing has the potential to literally destroy the lives of those you love. I know the excitement is great, and the attention is wonderful especially considering your H is abusive, but you can find that w/ someone else.

You need to get out of that marriage if your H is abusing you. It's not a healthy atmosphere for you or your children. After you two have separated or D, then you can find someone else besides your BIL. I hope that you can get this mess straightened out. Good luck.