Bored? Disconnected? Fizzling Out?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2011
Bored? Disconnected? Fizzling Out?
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Mon, 01-27-2014 - 8:56pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2014
Tue, 04-01-2014 - 2:35pm
Ethereal, 12 years on and off with your AP is a long time. Sometimes things tend to end in a slow fade and perhaps this could be the way its going down for you. I think its good that you're resisting scheduling your next meet up. I would allow him to see if he initiates it first. He may have some personal issues going on at home or work. One way to know is having the opportunity to really get to touch base with him. Afterall you dont want to assume anything. If you can try to chat with him over the phone if possible and see where his head is at. I always feel emails and text messages so much can be misconstrued. I wish you the best.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2011
Fri, 01-31-2014 - 4:04pm

no you are not I'm think I might be there with an on and off one for almost 7 years. Do you want to move on? In my case I think Im just tired for now but we are in the same city and its hard because if you don't say anyting they just think you are on a break and they can come back.

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Registered: 11-11-2013
Tue, 01-28-2014 - 6:48am

I think like any longterm relationship things will start to fizzle which is why most people get into affairs for the newness and 12 years is longer then a whole lot of merriages or friendships even though it has been off an on.I think now it has come down to the you have to work at it stage to keep things fresh. I think 12 years is a good run full of great memories so why not just let it end and live with what you had..