Both Married

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Registered: 04-25-2004
Both Married
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Sun, 04-25-2004 - 10:09am
I'm married and I have been flirting with a married man I work with. I told him that I was interested in getting together. I really think I would like it to just be a one time thing. I know this seems crazy. I didn't tell him that though I just said I would be interested. He said he he was flattered but not interested. That was months ago and we've continued to flirt. I'm not sure what to do. I like flirting with him but I don't know if it's going to go anywhere. A few weeks ago he said I might be getting to him. I'm not sure if he's serious or just playing me for a fool. Any thoughts anyone has would be helpful.
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Registered: 04-02-2004
In reply to: kwcbls
Sun, 04-25-2004 - 12:54pm
I doesn't matter what he says. You have definetly got into his mind and with all the flirting you're messing things up up there.

I don't thing he's lying. I bet with all that flirting he thinks more about you than he's willing to accept... you're going the right way!

Just don't push things... continue like that, slowly. Remember that the more you want the more you'll enjoy.

I am in the same position, although we're both flirting and have dreams and plans for our fantasy. I understand you, there's a difference between "I want to get together and have A good time" and "I'll leave my H for you"...

Go and get it if you want him...