Both Married and Loving Others

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Both Married and Loving Others
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Fri, 11-14-2008 - 2:57pm

OK . . . I should point out that I'm

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:07am

Evidently, I wasn't very clear in my post.

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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:11am
I agree with much of what you have said . . . but I would have to refer you to my post to Miss Indecision.
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:20am
We have given this subject a lot of thought and talked about it extensively, actually.
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:25am

Hi fkam!

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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:27am

I'm intuitive because I was in a very similar situation. Even though both AP and I thought the baby was his, we couldn't continue. We still talked a lot but no physical relationship. Thank you for coming back and clarifying the situation for us, I was afraid we had run you off!


I'd also like to add that not all relationships are helped by children. Mine was with the first child, but future children didn't help at all. I won't say THEY made our R worse, because I love my kids and can't imagine life without them, but I think that some issues are compounded by the fact that we have these other innocent little human beings who didn't ask to be here but are now suffering from our poor decisions.

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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 10:37am

Thank you for at least trying to be a little more understanding.

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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:03am
Yes, its twisted.
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:15am
You, I actually feel sorry for.
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:38am

trtlehi,


Thank you so much for your response.

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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 11:39am

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Um. Yeah, I think that would be a right thing to do. Cuz, you see, so far what I've seen, is disagreeing with each and every point each and every of these women made in their responses to you, defending and excusing yourself left, right, in, out, upside down and across and quaking the air without delivering anything constructive and productive. You are not Hearing what these women are telling you. They are telling you what your OW is thinking but is Not telling you cuz she is afraid that may send you running. Cuz you see, no matter how vigorously the MM are assuring their OW that everything is okay, deep down the OW Always (almost always) doubt it, and are unsure and afraid that Any little thing can tip the scale.


Also, either you are incredibly tight-fisted or you don't care enough about this woman you are supposedly love that all your imagination can fathom is either screwing her in your car or taking her to a cheap motel. Thad doesn't sound awfully romantic and I am sure she'd prefer something entirely different. Again, I wouldn't put much credibility into her assuring you that 'that's what she wants'. I am willing to bet that it actually

 

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