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Break up or not?
| Tue, 12-16-2003 - 12:05pm |
I sent MM a note last week saying I thought I needed to move on and date people that I can actually date. I really didn't think he would flinch. However, he wants to talk to me face-to-face and last night on the phone he even said he loved me which hasn't happened before. But, he still cannot think about leaving his W due to the children. So I either follow thru and quit seeing him (which I honestly don't think I can do) or I keep this up and maybe date on the side with his knowledge. I cannot imagine being without him since we have been best friends for over 20 years. However, I cannot imagine waiting for the next 5 to 10 years for his children to grow up so he can leave.
Why does love have to be so confusing and screwed up??

Edited 3/10/2004 5:02 pm ET ET by geek_chic
I agree with geek_chic. Do not let this man control your life and do not make it an empty threat. Go find that friend that you can date - its the best for both of you. I personally cannot be with anybody who doesn't show any affection or love or puts down people all the time. I don't deal well with verbal abuse either. Love is not as you define it - it shows respect,thoughtfulness and understands the other person's needs. Its better to let this go - its best for you both.
Edited 12/16/2003 12:57:57 PM ET by charmed1007