Broken Date........Need a Hug
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Broken Date........Need a Hug
| Thu, 01-15-2004 - 6:37pm |
My MM text me this am, and asked if I would like to'do lunch'by phone.......my heart grew wing's at the thought of talking with him for a precious hour.......should of known better it ws to tell me our long planned night out for Jan 26th was cancelled as his work schedule had been altered and he would not now be in my area. I tried to sound cheerful and okay with, but my heart sunk, eventually I told him how disappointed I was when our plan's had to get changed, and then even worse I started to cry........!!! He reassurred me, said he wished he could hug me, and said he had no idea when he could see me again, but was hoping it would be before end of Feb!!.
I miss him, and could do with a hug, yes I know it goe's with the territory...but it still get's to me each time it happens.
Could do with a hug, as feeling pretty down now,and very alone.
Cait

Thank you for your reply and the hug's.....it meant a lot ......I was starting to think that perhap's people thought it was what I deserved, as your's was the only reply.
To be honest I kind of feel like a bit of an intruder on here, as I am real new, and you all seem to know each other so well........I hope that I can 'fit' in....as it is nice to know there is somewhere to go to 'chat' about my A........
Thanks again for the hug's.
(((((hugehugs)))))
Cait... It's a normal reaction... after almost 4 years... I can still get rather down when plans between MM and I go astray in one way or another... unfortunately it really is all part and part of the parcel... doesn't mean we can't ask for a hug and support.
Don't feel like an intruder... just because you are new... we were all new once... and I know myself I felt a little the same when getting on board in the early days.
Sometimes... there are heaps of members around... and others... there's not.. so replies can be slow.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
pls dont feel as if no one is responding...
I am totally new here also.
I come on during my lunch break...
and at home..H is around too much...and on
this board I need total privacy.
So here are xxxxxxxooooooooo hugs and kisses.
And this should help,,,my MM NEVER made an attempt
to make a date, appt. etc....it was....ok, we're alone..
lets go....quick!!!
SO, at least ur MAN..made an effort !
Be strong!
TOW
Sorry not too many of us were around yesterday, I dont log in here from home.
And last night was date with MM night so I was out all evening!
I'd like to say that it get easier, but it dosent. Broken dates are tough!! I've had my share, but I always tell MM I'd rather break the date than risk getting found out! I dont believe I've ever cried, but I know I've felt like it many times, the build up we go through to get some "alone time", then only to hear "I cant make it" or "my plans have changed"... Sometimes its hard not to take it personaly!!
Sounds like yours is a Long distance R, How often do you get to see each other. The lucnh phone call was nice, right? Try to remember the "good stuff".
Have a great day,
dayz
sorry that you've had a letdown because of your future date being cancelled. by the sound of your post, you're in a long-distance R/A and that's really, really hard to keep up. looking on the positive side, at the very least, you had a nice, long convo with MM and he does want to work out his schedule to get to you in february, so hang in there honey and just live your life and have fun, do things for just YOU! get a manicure, or a massage or do retail therapy (shopping!). anything that makes you feel better is always good.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} to you!
gurl
I'm in a LDA so the time we can get together is precious, but far and few in between. The last time we were together was Sept.. He swore he would be here for Christmas, but those plans fell through. Now, I'm not sure when I'll see him.
I remember in the beginning of our R. when he couldn't see me my heart was torn and especially when he'd come and then leave. It would devastate me. However, now, it's not as bad as it use to be. I know now eventually we'll get together.
It's hard to deal with, but it is part of it.
Hang in there and here's my hug (((((hug))))), :).