Bumming

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Bumming
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Mon, 06-07-2010 - 3:58pm
Since his email declining my lunch or drink invite last Thursday, I haven't heard a peep from MM. I don't have a good feeling about this. I am feeling very hurt and ignored. I had to send him an email today about a work related issue and I kept it very professional. He replied in the same manner. I was trying not to contact him after he wanted to take a rain check on lunch plans and figured I would leave the ball in his court to reschedule. He has made no effort whatsoever to have contact with me. Just needed to vent and it sucks!
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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: jerseygirl2010
Mon, 06-07-2010 - 4:52pm

I'm sorry jerseygirl:(.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-17-2003
In reply to: jerseygirl2010
Mon, 06-07-2010 - 5:48pm

hey jerseygirl,

I don't have any advice, just wanted to say sorry that he's given you the "cold shoulder" (sorry, I can't remember how far anything had gone between you). I hope you haven't had too much time to invest any of your heart with this person.

I can say that, if I knew three years ago what I know now...I would have run the other way...and fast! Maybe you should take this as an opportunity to protect yourself from the pain of loving a MM.

Take care of you,

benska

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Registered: 05-21-2010
In reply to: jerseygirl2010
Mon, 06-07-2010 - 7:18pm

Hi JerseyGirl,


Just wanted to send you some (((((HUGS))))). I hope that you are hanging in there...it sucks waiting to hear from them!


Keep coming here to vent.

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 04-28-2010
In reply to: jerseygirl2010
Tue, 06-08-2010 - 3:48pm
Thank you for your support, this board is really great with that. I may have been over reacting a bit about his NC. I'm not 100% sure, but it seems that he has been out of work the past few days or been moved to another site. Email contact has been very limited. I hope to find out what is going on with him in the next day or so, but I don't think it has anything to do with me or my lunch/drink invite last week. Trying to keep positive about this....