busted

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Registered: 02-01-2013
busted
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Wed, 03-13-2013 - 3:54pm

I went out for drinks Saturday night to take my mind off my H being a complete a$$ and MM being away. Well I stayed out too late and H went through my phone the next morning. Stupid text messages. My close friend has turned out to be a backstabbing bit¢£ and my H is doing everything to win me back and that is making me crazy. I wanted to leave once this school year was over. I told him I wanted to leave and he is being manipulative and emotional. Poor MM came home from vacation to text message saying do not reply. With the exception of a minor meltdown he has been standing by me like a true man. Now we are trying to navigate this minefield...any suggestions?

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Registered: 09-21-2007
In reply to: heartbeat4u
Thu, 03-14-2013 - 9:13am

I wish I had some suggestions for you.  Everyone is different.  I had a D day and it wasn't pretty. 

If you really want to leave your H than you should be able to do so.  You need to be strong no matter what he says or does.

Good luck!

 

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