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Registered: 10-26-2010
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Sun, 04-14-2013 - 9:07pm

The affair was over for a long time. Life was settling into a normal place and then boom D-Day. The pain it caused is horrible. I never knew how it would feel to scar anothers soul. I wish now, I would have just left the marriage with my integrity in tact. It would have hurt  a lot less people.

~Sunny~
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Registered: 07-24-2011
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Thu, 04-25-2013 - 12:41am

Sunny,

I haven't been here for a while and just happened to check today, only to see the dreaded D-day post. I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. You are truly a amazing and generous person, and your light shines through in all your posts and in your support of others. Though you are going through all this pain, and say your integrity has been compromised, I know with time these wounds to you and your family will heal. Of course it is a terrible thing, but we are all human and make human mistakes...

Hope you are doing ok. Hang in there Sunny

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Registered: 05-17-2003
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Mon, 04-15-2013 - 11:17pm

Hi Sunny,

I am really sorry that you're having to go through this when it was all done so long ago. I know what you mean about scarring anothers soul..I have to look at my ex-h almost every day, and remember EVERY SINGLE TIME just what I did to him and to our marriage. It is a truly bitter pill that I have yet to manage to swallow. 

I hope you're ok.

benska

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Registered: 09-21-2007
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Mon, 04-15-2013 - 11:59am

I'm sorry to hear this.  I hope it all ends well for you.

 

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Registered: 10-03-2009
In reply to: sunnydaysnow
Sun, 04-14-2013 - 11:06pm

Hi Sunny,

Wish you'd come to the board w/ better news or just to say hi.  You've been such a great support to many here.

I hope time works its magic somehow and you can put the pieces together, in whatever way possible.

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