Busted and .....
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| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 2:41pm |
Well here's the crappy part. Today of all days we talked a few times. After I left the restaraunt where I had the best lunch with one of my girlfriends I beeped him on the nextel. Well he failed to tell me earlier that he and his wife were going to lunch too and she heard what I said. I didn't say anything incriminating but when he beeped me back I could tell he wasn't alone. He asked a work related question and I know my tone changed and he did too and we cut it short.
He called later and said he was busted. There was no way around it. For months she said something was up with him and now she knew what it was. She said my voice changed as soon as he as he said "we" were on our way to lunch. All it's going to take is a little digging and she will see on the cell phone records where we talk alot. More than normal and it will be obvious that it is not all work. He told her we are just friends and that we talk sometimes, but she is just insanely jealous anyways, now she has a reason to be.
What am I going to do ? We are just friends but I know he is in love with me although I do not feel the same way. I wouldn't want to wreck his life for anything. I never should have beeped him. I'm just rambling now. I hope this just blows over with her and she takes his word for it, but I've got a feeling it won't.
I made a co-worker park my car around back and am having the receptionist send all my calls to my voicemail. She knows me and where I work. I told him to say what he needed to say or tell whatever lie he needed to and I would back him up. I mean this is his life and job on the line here. And all of it is really over nothing. We never did anything.
Oh well hopefully she won't call or come here today.
~Blue

blue, honey, just calm down.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
~Blue
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
let me send you some comfort. don;'t beat yourself up about it, just something that happened, nthing you will be able to do to make it better.
He will have to deal with her and she will have to deal with what she thinks is going on, went on etc.
Give him his space and give it some time for things to calm down, been there done that and you are in so much turmoil right now I understand.
Trust that tomorrow will be a better day, should she confront you I would assure you are just friends, be short and kind to her. Let him handle the rest
Not sure if it woudl be a good idea to stay even close friends, as you said you think or say you know he loves you, but you don;t feel the same.
Would you consider just totally removing yoruself from the picture so he can move on ?
Hugs to you ......
~Blue
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
Luvin