CakeEaters?????

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Registered: 01-27-2004
CakeEaters?????
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 9:29am
Just a question for all of the OW. Do you think your MM likes having his cake and eating it too? AS a MW involved with a MM I sometimes wonder if thats what they think of themselves.
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Registered: 12-03-2003
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 9:38am
I have been referred to as a cake eater, but my OW knew from the get go before we even got really started I made it clear. So yes I am a cake eater, extra frosting and a corner piece for me please :)

PNC

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 9:45am
never mind




Edited 1/27/2004 9:52:50 AM ET by seeburg2003

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:00am
Couldn't we be called the same thing? Seems we're doing the same thing the men are! Just a thought.
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Registered: 01-27-2004
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 10:49am
hi

you're right .... we really are just the same.
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Registered: 04-03-2003
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 11:15am
While i see the cake eating premise, i think it's a little unfair to say our MM have it all good all the time. Yeah, it's got it's advantages for them, but there are hard parts for them too. If they still care about their wives (and i'm sorry but no matter how "miserable" they claim to be, even if they were to LEAVE, most of them still CARE) it's hard to lie, hard to hurt them, and hard if in my case they know. They definitely don't want to hurt us, yet they can't be in 2 places at once. Sexually, okay, can't see much downside to having an OW there LOL!!!! (except for my poor MM whose W and i were on the same cycle for a good six months LOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

This is from the SW/MM perspective BTW.

Jen