Calling all men

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Calling all men
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 4:11pm
Calling all men! Please..I am sure a lot of us would love to have the perspective of a S man with a MW. Please help us out. It will be VERY much appreciated! Thanks.

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Registered: 08-27-2005
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 12:06am

i would love to hear their views from all angles. from a single man with a MW to a MM with a single woman as well as a MM with a MW. in fact even single men who are looking for someone. this last one all the same would be for the singles board. i thought about the above this morning. i am not sure if many men come to this site. just like how many men do not go to gloryb.com. i think a good number of them are over by askmen.com. that passed through my mind this morning. i am an ex- single ow so i would really love to hear what mm with single ow have to say.

come on guys. don't be shy.

k2002
k2002
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Registered: 08-27-2005
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 12:09am
we can give it a little while as they might be slow in responding. if we don't hear anything, then we might all have to visit askmen.com and share our views.
k2002
k2002
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Registered: 11-24-2009
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 9:21am
I agree. I'd love to hear more posts from men
~Layla~
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 11:39am
I posted once on that site but got flamed for having an A.It seems like those guys are all bitter.
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Registered: 12-10-2009
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 1:38pm

I'm a SM who was having an affair with a MW. I gave some of my details on the post "Those that cheat, cheat on you". I will be happy to give you my perspectives as honestly as possible; maybe even things you might not want to

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 3:17pm
I agree. I have been there before and if you ask about A's you get berated. Not a good idea to post there.
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Registered: 10-25-2007
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 3:22pm
Thank you so much for being open and honest. Yes, most women prefer the little things, just to know she is special. It means a lot that you took the time to post. I hope more men step up and give their insight.
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Registered: 11-06-2009
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 5:17pm

hey,


Single guy here.

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 5:36pm
Yes, A's are exciting. You can all to easily get wrapped up in them. We all love a man's opinion on here because we never get one. We are also here to help if you need some of our advice. How do you feel about her, did you tell her, etc. Just want open and honest views from a man.


Edited 12/14/2009 2:34 pm ET by nonchalant345
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Registered: 10-14-2009
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 12:21pm

Im a MM with a MW A for 3.5 years. Horrible ups and downs, never a moment of peace. Breakups on a monthly basis. I have a great DW and 2 kids. But I fell in love with AP, I like her so much as a person, and the chemistry I feel for her is like nothing before. Even after 3.5 years. She has always wanted to be man and wife. I have always said we would not do well in the real world. Which is 100% accurate. I constantly tell her if she wants a divorce to be happy I will step aside and let her go. Which I have done several times. But she reels me back in. And I am happy she does.

Our last break-up, which she nearly always initiates due to her in-ability to handle my intimacy with my wife, she is horribly jealous (she has sex with her DH - and had a one night stand with a guy in our hometown during one of break-ups 2.5 years ago - yes, I am very jealous too, but any alternative is worse). Well last time we broke up I had my wife's first initial tattoed over my heart thinking that would keep AP away, even if I couldn't keep away from her. Well, it kept her away for about 2 weeks. And so it goes.

Well Nonchalant, you posted a vague question, and not to flame the guys who responded, but they seem a lot more sensitive than I. Exactly what perspective are you seeking?

As a single guy I had several affairs with MW. And you know what - all I wanted was to "F" their brains out. And that's exactly what I did! This is an ugly game we play.

But I promise everyone reading this, with the horrible exception of my DW, I have always been 100% honest and open upfront of my intentions. Sex and friendship.

"You Cant Lose What You Never Had" ---

Muddy Waters

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