Can the 2nd man tell?
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| Mon, 05-10-2004 - 12:50pm |
Anyway, ironically, the A has actually improved my M. My H might be beginning to suspect that I’m having an A. For the past week or two, he has is suddenly not completely focused on playing golf and watching sports on TV, and now devotes a little attention to me. He’s suddenly rediscovered sex. This weekend, he initiated sex with me three times. Before my A began, he wouldn’t have done that in two weeks. I don’t find IC with my H disagreeable, just boring. I just lie there in the missionary position and moan a few times until he’s finished. He's never satisfied like OM does in 25 years. Anyway, I guess that when a woman gets attention from another man, her self-confidence improves and she becomes more attractive to her H.
I think that my H suspects that I’m having an A, but has no idea with whom. Even though they are a generation apart, H and OM have become fast friends, so I don’t think that H suspects him. On Saturday, they went golfing together.
On Friday, as usual, OM and I made love for a few hours in the morning, then he returned in the afternoon, and we were again intimate. My H came home from work about an hour later, and as soon as he arrived, he tried to initiate sex with me. He’s never done that before. I really panicked. I was afraid that if I had IC with my H, he would be able to tell that I had been with someone else only an hour before. I told H that I was too tired and refused him. I was able put him off that time, but I’m afraid that next time I won’t be so lucky.
If a woman has IC with one man, then has IC with another man an hour or two later, can the 2nd man tell that she’s been sexually active?

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Anyway, my thoughts (a I also do want to get too graphic, but the subject matter is a little racey),
There is absolutely no way I would be able to have relations with my H the same day as being with xMM, or the next day for that matter, let alone 1 hour later. Not only would I find it even more disrespectful to H, but I would be a paranoid mess. And maybe this is just me, but even after a shower, I know that I still definitely have evidence of IC, due to the "what goes up, must come down" factor.
Once my H found out about my A - he bluntly asked it we used a condom. We didn't. H told me that he honestly didn't think he would ever be able to be oral with me again. It was psycological for him and he said "I can cum where another man has cum, but I don't think I'll ever be able to head down there again with my mouth"!
Fortunately for me, he has gotten over his phobia, and the first time was extremely uncomfortable, for both of us, only because each of us knew what was going through the other's mind. However, once past the initial tongue play, we are definitely back to normal in that department.
My advice, is be very careful!
And, now I think this is the second post I have replied to since last night, where I now have to go jump in a cold shower. (LOL)
Take care
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So your getting Sex everyday plus he brings chocolates and Roses everyday also. Well, I bet the chocolate is starting to pile up as you both are busy with other activities. Let me volunteer my services for all chocolate management...LOL! Ok a little more serious regarding your present sitution and your H. I know this sounds really crazy, but have you considered that your H might have planned some of this and is turned on by your affair. The only reason I say this is because you state his interest has really shot up, shows up an hour after OM leaves and tries to initate sex which he never has done before. He also has become buddies with OM and they went and played golf together. I apologize if any of this is offensive, but like you I also view your H most rescent action and think he knows but in what manner was this knowledge obtained.
Goodlukc,
MoebNme
First, I don’t find your post offensive. I asked for feedback, and I welcome receiving it.
Your hypothesis is interesting. I never considered it. At first blush, it seems highly improbable, although I admit, it’s possible.
Hmmm, I’ll have to think about it…
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