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| Wed, 11-26-2008 - 3:03am |
SO ap is still in a coma and H is off out of state 4 work.
| Wed, 11-26-2008 - 3:03am |
SO ap is still in a coma and H is off out of state 4 work.
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Cowgirl,
I feel for you...what an ungrateful pig this girl is.
A few days ago I found out something that left me totally shattered. My best GF whom I thought to be my sister (that's how close we were) told her H everything about my A...I mean everything, even that it was PA. Of course, her H told everything to my H...since we put some ground rules before separation - like being able to see other people - it did not have such a huge impact, but under different circumstance it could've cost me a marriage right on spot.
I can't possibly explain or rationalize why did she do that. Not out of revenge - we've never fought. But I was so hurt, I will never talk to her again, so I'll never find out her reasoning for trusting such intimate and confidential information to someone who had no business knowing.
(((Hugs)))
Vivacious
Guys, never, never, never tell ANYONE.
You are very right--
Emily,
My GF have had an EA at the same time, so it was kind of naturally for us to discuss things like that, plus I was separated at the time..But I would never have dreamt to tell about her A anyone, let alone my H who goes out with her H, to me it was completely insane and totally off limits. I was stunned to find out that she shared details of my A with her H and apparently made a judgment of me too. Well, she got what she deserved...she had Dday and her H is divorcing her.
Cowgirl, you are an awesome person who got hurt over being too kind. Life will teach this poor girl a lesson.
(((Hugs)))
Vivacious
It might also be helpful for everyone to know that both my H and AP have gone out of there way to help this girl-- given her jobs and money oppertunities.
Girl, I just don't get how you could even trust
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