Can someone please help me?
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Can someone please help me?
| Fri, 10-31-2003 - 7:01pm |
The past 2 days have been crazy. I've been in an A for alomost a year with someone I work with. We have been friends for about 5 years, but got serious last December. We are both married, but I am recently separated. He he still married with 2 kids. We both admitted we complete each other and love each other. A couple months ago, he was ready to leave. Now his wife wants to make things work, so he will try now for the sake of his kids (2 boys - 7 and 3). Well, yesterday my crazy soon-to-be ex (who is an alcoholic and hitting rock bottom) called MM's wife. My H told her he's had a PI on us for months and he has phone records and pix of us. MM told me to lie that nothing was going on, so I did. Then MM's wife wanted to see my H. I can't get a hold of my H-he's MIA. Today MM told his wife we had an affair from July to Sept and that we only kissed (which is such a lie - it was more like a year, we have been intimate and are in love). She called me to "thank" me for being honest yesterday, siad she hoped I "enjoyed" him, and asked for my side of the story. I again I lied for him (and said the same story he told her today). I feel terrible! I don't know what's going to happen now. I told him I want him to be happy but this is so devestating to me! He wants to call me over the weekend to see if I'm ok. But I'm a wreck and can't stop tembling. I love him so much and he loves me but now I don't what's going to happen to us or his marriage. What should I do? Can someone please help me tonight? I'm all alone and so sad.
Thanks for listening......

Wishing
And now, it is being charaterized as just kissing and one time oral sex. That hurts me so much, but I know he's doesn't want to tell her everything because he wants to be with his kids and a divorce would lessen his time with them (so he thinks). Now he said he have to call me someonetime next week, which is so different from what we're used to (usually every day).
Any other advice you guys could give me would be greatly appreciated!