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| Fri, 05-15-2009 - 11:39pm |
Sorry in advance for such a long post.
| Fri, 05-15-2009 - 11:39pm |
Sorry in advance for such a long post.
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You sent him a gift after he screamed at you and made you feel like crap?
I know, Clarity, sounds crazy.
You have landed yourself a very difficult guy!
No advice.
Take care.
Good morning,
inturmoil,
Been following your posts over the weekend and I was compelled to respond after this one.
Your AP sounds unfortunately very similar to someone I dated after my divorce. One month totally attentive and all over me. The next month he started acting very strangely and more it went on, the more bizarre it got. He was a master emotional manipulator.. (a lawyer no less) who could effectively turn anything he did wrong to his advantage.
I'm sorry but being a stalker does not equal love, imo.
Your AP knew you were married when the two of you decided to begin a relationship. So why is he telling you now that you need to prove anything to him? Just so you can keep the prize?
Please go to your library or Amazon.com and get the following book. It is very enlightening:
In Sheep's Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People.
Once I realized what the man I was dating was all about, I was able to effectively hold my own in conversations and I ended the R. very quickly. He wasn't worth the high blood pressure he was causing.
Don't hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love. ~Anonymous
&nb
theeternal, you have put it soo well.If only all A's were like that-- feeling of contentment.
You are one lucky gal.
Right now, he is being
So, Clarity,
It sounds more like emotional abuse than an emotional connection( or A).This guy knows that you love him dearly , so he is pushing your buttons again and again.
You need to cut him off from your life.
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