Cant believe Im back here again...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-06-2005
Cant believe Im back here again...
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Fri, 08-21-2009 - 9:18am

But here I am .... back in the same situation that brought me to this board years ago...


A little history... I left my husband for my long distance OM, we have since been dating , still long distance for 3 years... after a 2 year affair...


Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 4:24pm

So, How do you feel when you read over your list? Who do you lean towards.


I know this is hard for you but at least you have a choice. You have two to choose from. My situation is that I'm hoping MM will see that we will be happier together than he is with his W. I try not to wait and hope so much, but I can't help it.


Before you make your decision, think and pray hard. You can make the right choice for you and your kids. Be strong and keep updating, even if you just need to post on here what's going on in your mind.


Hugs:)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2007
Wed, 08-26-2009 - 12:09pm
Ok I am going to throw my 2 cents in here. From your list (which I do all the time) it seems that you have issues with both men. The age difference, physical appearance

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-06-2005
Sat, 08-29-2009 - 10:30am

Well , I am finally able to take a breather tonight...


Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

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