Can't believe it

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Registered: 08-31-2008
Can't believe it
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Sun, 10-12-2008 - 2:20pm
My AP told about us to one of our coworkers, well known gossiper.
He was the one being extra careful not to let anyone know (he is still M, I am separated, we have no concrete plans for future at the moment, although things are going pretty well and we are crazily in love). This is so unlike him.
Coworker thought this was a joke of a kind, but my AP is not known for flirtatious behavior (hehe), so the guy came back next day and asked if it was true. And AP says he confirmed that we are together.
What that supposed to mean? I was present when he said it, and honestly, almost fainted.
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Registered: 10-03-2008
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 6:57pm

it means he had to tell someone..my ap is the one who let the cat out of the bag too..he told one of his parents and told that parent he's in love with me and got slapped across his face...then told that parent..that it is what it is..he told a sibling..we've met and hung out, so to speak...sometimes you just can't hold something in..even if it's wrong..but it makes you extremely happy or you're overjoyed about it...sometimes you just gotta tell someone...to them, male AP's this can become overwhelming too...they tell the oddest of folk..know what i mean...so someone has to know...i guess that's just the way it is...


we got caught friday by a bunch of male co workers..except my AP was getting, pounds, high fives and the "what's up playah, homeboy, playboy?" type of thingy going on...WOWSERS..and right in front of me too..


i thought it was funny..but, it will be okay..he may have just had to tell someone..

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss