Cant choose

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Cant choose
Thu, 10-02-2003 - 12:04am
I was a young bride, and have been in turmoil the entire 4 yrs. H sees nothing wrong. About 3 yrs ago, I met an older man in which has become my best friend. He is recently divorced, and expressed his love for me 2 yrs ago. Since then we have talked at least twice a day, and I feel that is not enough. H knows I am unhappy with him, but does not want to have to tell other people he has failed. My problem that he is in the army and has been gone for a year now, and has only seen our 7 mo son two weeks. When he gets back he wants me to live with him in another state.....I want to do the right thing. I want my son to know his father, but I don't want to be unhappy forever....I am 23.