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Can't decide to leave or stay?
| Mon, 05-17-2004 - 1:26pm |
I have to say that I am not happily married anymore with my husband anymore. I have been married three years and now going on 4 years on June 30th. I have to admit that I have cheated on him twice. He does not know anything because they were only a week fling. I cheated on him, the first time, after having my son in summer of 2002. But I was tempted to do it again but this time with a co-worker. I feel as if I can no longer live like this. I am thinking of leaving him because I am afraid of cheating on him again.
I already told him how I felt but didn't tell him about my affairs. Also, it's like I still want to be around for my son but my love for him is just not the same. Cheaters will always be cheaters! What should I do?
I already told him how I felt but didn't tell him about my affairs. Also, it's like I still want to be around for my son but my love for him is just not the same. Cheaters will always be cheaters! What should I do?

Cheaters aren't always cheaters if your happy. I think you need counseling in a big way. The reason being you don't want to make a major mistake, there is SOME reason why you married this guy. Once you have overturned every rock and there is no reconciling it...then end the marriage. Your son is young and will be fine, you can still be a great mom. But you have to fix this problem you have in your marriage, and if it isn't fixable you need to move on.
JMHO
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