cant get him out of my mind

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Registered: 03-19-2008
cant get him out of my mind
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Thu, 01-08-2009 - 3:53pm
Hi everyone,

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Sat, 01-10-2009 - 7:21pm

Thanks, Justice, sorry to hear things are different for you now, but it sounds like you are doing ok? I hope, anyway. Yes, he is a great guy, I must admit, and I have been in better spirits since taking everyone's advice here. I agree, there is no going back to how my life used to be, before AP, and I really would never want to. I am anticipating seeing him, even though I dont know when exactly, but not concentrating on him constantly makes it that much better when I see his number pop up on my phone, its the little things that make a difference, thanks again.

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Registered: 04-17-2006
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 1:47pm
Thanks Tgr...it took me a long time to get to this point. Maybe Im finally coming "into my own" or something like that. I hate seeing women get into A's and screw up their whole lives (and their children's lives) over it. I came to that point in my first A with someone who was so not worthy of me. He was a disgusting human being. I'm finally with someone kind and in a good situation... if I choose to handle this the right way so that the A does not hurt me but helps me. I'm trying hard to get to a good place for me, and if AP is along for the ride (pardon the pun) then great. But I'm not going to become a whiney codependent desperate unhappily married woman. I wish I could instill this sense of self in everyone on this board, but we are all in different situations and in different stages of our lives.

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