CAN'T STAND THE STBX,,,, PSYCHO B......
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CAN'T STAND THE STBX,,,, PSYCHO B......
| Mon, 12-22-2003 - 6:59pm |
so, my M goes over to pick up his two daughters as was scheduled days before. He gets there and only one is there and it's the oldest that he is having trouble with . This is the daugther that the mother was able to play head games with and put her against her dad. anyways, she says that the youngest is on her way. so, he sat there and waited. well, the oldest starts to disrespect the mother and he tells her to watch her mouth and not to talk to her mother that way. (see, she created a monster that turned on her as well).then she starts to disrespect him, so he gets up and goes towards her, get this. THE LITTLE GIRL STARTS TO HIT HIM. so,he was surprised at first, but he got his senses and he popped her hands a couple of times, while the mother just sat there and did nothing as usual. she runs in her room and locks the door on him. he has the mother open up the door and the little girl runs out another door, outside , barefooted in the snow. He chases her and stops her. Finally, the little girl starts to talk and let out HER feelings, not her mothers (which when the mother is not around the girl acts soo normal an sweet) well, she tells him that he doesnt like the way her mother cries and gets mad and that its all his fault and she doesnt want to hear the yelling and arguing anymore. So, he explains to her why he isnt with the mother and that it doesnt stop how he is her father and he loves her very much. That he wants a stable place for her and a healthy environment where she knows it's ok to be alittle girl (the mother talks to her like she's an adult,keeps her up all night dogging her dad and tells her its ok to hate him)well, he gets her in the house and has her sit down with both of them thinking that they both can finally make her understand that just because they aren't together doesn't have to mean they hate each other (which he does because of how she has made the situation and alienated his kids) but, THE POINT IS THAT SHE WAS FINALLY OPENING UP AND LETTING HIM BACK IN, which would have been a good start for them if this dumb , stupid , retarded, mental ill idiot didn't say, "this wouldn't happen if you were still home" and " you need to stop seeing (my name)" and going off saying a whole bunch of ignorant stupid negative stuff in front of the daughter, upsetting her all over AGAIN. He just got fed up and left, but not before telling her that she cares nothing for her children and he can't believe that everything he did was for his family and that she will go that far to hurt him by hurting his daugthers (oh, the youngest might not even be his). This woman has a conviction of assault against me while i was pregnant, has 3 yrs probation and has child services investigating her for child neglect. she will not get a job, and has her daughters looking like bumbs every single day. If it wasnt her he and I last year, they would have never had school clothes, summer clothes, bday gifts or a christmas. everything they got was from he and I. i can't stand her and I hate how he is feeling because of what happened with his daughter. There is nothing that I can do but be there and hope that this finalization of divorce happens in feb as planned. He is going for full custody because she doesn't have the parenting skills to raise these children. she puts them off on other people. she is doing a drug called xstacy and doesnt care how her children look in public. and if the youngest comes out not to be his, he is asking for all child support that has been paid since he left the house and a temporary order was placed. this woman is SICK and needs help. has told him that she doesn't love her kids and doesn't like them at all.
