Caught in the backseat of my car!!!!!

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Caught in the backseat of my car!!!!!
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Sat, 10-11-2008 - 10:28pm
OK, it's not as bad as it sounds. We were not caught by our spouses. Only by a couple of cars driving by, a dozen pumpkin pickers and oh ya a hayride full of kids!!!! Probably a bad time of year to fool around beside an apple orchard/pumpkin patch!!! But hey, it's "our" spot and we had no time to look for somewhere else! It had been awhile and we were not going to wait - besides it's usually a very private place! I can't complain, for the first time in months, he initiated everything - pretty much all afternoon at work. We were just watching the clock, waiting for the day to end. We sit right beside each other and let's just say neither of us did much work that day! Once 5:00 came, we bolted out the door - separately of course - we park at different sides of the building. He got there (and before our audience showed up) climbed into my backseat. I was still in the front seat and joked about how I would reach him from up there. Then he grabbed me and pulled me back with him and said I was crazy!!! We couldn't exactly do as much as we hoped, but it was a good time! We ended up sitting and talking for awhile after about personal stuff. He has been alot more emotional with me lately and I'm not sure why. I had a very rough day about a week before (separation from H issues) and he sent me a very personal, caring e-mail at work. He had heard me upset on the phone and sent it. He has never done anything like that before - it really choked me up actually and made me feel better about the whole situation. Anyway, he told me that he hates his job (which I knew) and that the only thing that keeps him coming to work is me. That I'm the only thing he looks forward to cause we have so much fun together and
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Registered: 09-22-2008
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 9:45am

I've been in a situation where we were "walked in on" but not by anyone who knew us and, thank goodness, they didn't walk in on IC so it was fairly easy to make an excuse and that is months behind us now.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 10:30am
Yes, he is M with two kids. I should clarify - he has talked to me about his childhood and his past and even some of his problems now. He has always been there to listen to my problems and give me his opnions/advice. He has said to me that if it seems like he doesn't care or doesn't like to talk about things, that it's not true