Caught me by surprise :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Caught me by surprise :(
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Tue, 10-13-2009 - 7:56pm

I could just kick myself.. Today my ex-ap text me with I going to see you this Sunday.. I call him right away.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 9:34pm

Gal,


Forget his peace of mind. Who cares what he wants. Yes, he caught you by surprise, but now it should be sunk in your mind. I beg of you,


PLEASE DONT GO!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2009
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 12:56am

I agree with Caribu on this...DO NOT GO AND SEE HIM!!!


Who the fk cares about HIS peace of mind. BLOCK him from all communications.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 2:50am

PLEASE DO NOT GO!!!


He is sucking you into seeing him! You KNOW this! You KNOW better than this!


Who cares about his peace of mind.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 3:51pm

Thank you ladies, for concern and advice.. However, I am in fear if I do not give in to his demands he will show up on my front steps.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 5:22pm
send him a doctor's note....you do not need to see him
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 6:28pm

If he shows at your doorstep, tell him to leave. If he refuses to do so call the police. Get a restraining order.


Grow a backbone and stand up for yourself and stop feeding off the drama and attention you are getting from this! Protect yourself and do not see this poor excuse for a man who has threatened your life. remind yourself this is the loser who told you he would mop the floor with your face. You need not answer to an abuser like that... focus on your family and take care of yourself.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 7:11pm
I did...but he refuse..

"Be yourself no matter what they say"


“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 8:39pm
When it come to my family it is my duty to protect them.
“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 9:12pm

You need tough love.


You won't be able to protect your family if he really is what you say he is. I'm not trying to be a pessimist, but really he is dangerous. If you meet up with him could he potentially kill you??? If he knows he has lost you that might put him over the edge and who knows what he will do when he sees you... do you want to leave your family without a mom?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 10:51pm

Why did you "call him right away" over a text?

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