Caught me by surprise :(

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Registered: 05-14-2009
Caught me by surprise :(
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Tue, 10-13-2009 - 7:56pm

I could just kick myself.. Today my ex-ap text me with I going to see you this Sunday.. I call him right away.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2009
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 3:17am

IF he was going to do something, he would have by now. Also, just because he comes from a country that believes in suicide bombing..which by the way, is a racist statement because its still a small percentage that believe in suicide bombing and to lump them all up is racist...does NOT mean he does and suicide bombers do not explodes themselves over some chick.


Why would you get involved with someone like this???? You were just asking for trouble. STOP responding to him. END OF STORY.


If you were so concerned with your family,

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 8:32pm

"... which by the way, is a racist statement because its still a small percentage that believe in suicide bombing and to lump them all up is racist..."

Oh please get off your high horse! This is MAS; we are essentially a group of liars and cheaters here, the last thing to worry about is being politically correct.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 2:35am
true dat!!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 3:49am
Racism is worse than cheating on a spouse....Racism is hate.......
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 3:50am

Racism = hate.... so TRUE DAT

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 9:26am

i sympathize with you.I guess your AP is sure enough that you are in love with him,he is making you dance around like a puppet.its true you cant choose who you fall in love with but you have unknowingly fallen for a guy who doesnt feel the same for you or maybe does but surely knows how to show it !

I dont have any advice on how to deal with your AP but sounds like even if you believe your A has ended,its not.this guy wont leave you alone till he gets what he wants.and as to what he wants,is definately you must be knowing.

Some men can go crazy over a woman and do weird stuff.some men leave you alone after repeated 'no' but since this guy is not going away,there has to be more to it but i really cant put my finger on anything specific.

who knows if he really is mad about you??

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 12:35pm

I am NO Racist !

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 1:20pm

According to the Webster dictionary, racism is:

1 : a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race
2 : racial prejudice or discrimination

There is no mention of hate. It is possible for people to believe they are superior to others without feelings of hate. And there are indeed traits within certain races: marathon runners from Kenya inspire fear in others (they are SO fast), Dutch men are the tallest in the world, etc.

And who are you to give the verdict that racism is worse than cheating? In some countries, including the one Gal's AP comes from, cheating comes with a death sentence whereas it is perfectly fine to discriminate against other races and women.

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Registered: 10-15-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 5:58pm

"HE ONCE TOLD ME THAT IN HIS COUNTRY HE HAD THE FATHER OF HIS EX GIRLFRIEND PUT IN A WHEEL CHAIR. SO THAT SHE CAN REMEMBER HIM WHEN SHE LOOK AT HER FATHER... TELL ME THIS STORY IS NOT SICK..

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2009
Sat, 10-17-2009 - 5:59pm
I dont care what the dictionary says...Racism in any form is hate...intolerance to others.