The changes in me... what about you?

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The changes in me... what about you?
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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:06am
On Monday I go into the hospital so will be laid up for a couple of days -- I'm having a tummy tuck (okay you ladies under 40 just won't understand it). I was just thinking about all the changes I've noticed in me since I started this A. I don't have one pair of white undies in my drawer (never can tell when you'll need to have a quick trist), I shave my legs every day, I've lost 30 pounds, I smile more (and cry more), I never leave the house without make-up, I'm more aware of my body and feel sexually charged a lot of the time. Even H is noticing the difference and is liking the changes. I'm not using that as an excuse -- it is what it is. I'm just saying it's nice to be so charged all the time and feel good about myself for a change. I love the high, and even the lows are better than before -- at least I'm not feeling numb all the time. How long will that last, do you suppose? Does anyone else feel that way?

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:12am
Let us know how the tummy tuck goes!! I've thought about stuff like that before, but I am basically a chicken and pass out at the sight of blood lol.

Anyways, I think we all love the feeling of being desired by someone. I know I have stuff I never had before, stockings, garter belts, toys, sexy bras, etc.

Some of the stuff H sees, and doesn't seem to have much reaction.

Other stuff I've bought are just for me and MM. And with MM, I get a reaction with just about everything, from clothes all the way to shoes. As a matter of fact, he just got to see one of my new things this week. I like his reaction when I wear this stuff.

Its awesome!! And makes me feel really great, its so nice to have someone appreciate the effort you take in your looks, going to the gym 3x a week, etc.

Dusty
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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:20am
I've lost 10 pounds and hope to lose another 10. Nothing's ever motivated me like MM. He loves me the way I am and think's I'm perfect and beautiful but I did this for me. I've stopped taking the Prozac I was on for 3 years. My H thought I was depressed and I guess I was but I don't think it was "chemical"...I was just unhappy, unloved, unmotivated, but now with MM.....I am content and in love.

LOL...I even get Brazilian Bikini Waxes! H would probably wonder about that if he ever looked in that area.....:)....

PS: I only wear thongs now too! No ragged underwear for this Chiclet!

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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:27am
Hi chicklet, I was curious about that Brazilian Waxing, is it really drastic? and does it hurt. Although my Mm doesn't really like me to even shave certain areas if you know what I mean. Isn't it strange how our H's don't even have enough interest to notice our private areas? I've left mine natural meanwhile H would prefer it shaved, if he ever looked!!

Also, I have used temporary tatoos with MM. Little flutterbyes or hearts. He thinks they are cute!!

Dusty
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:28am
ok - this is funny about the bikini wax - OM asked if I would do it "for him" and I said there is no way b/c H would freak - he has said he thinks that is gross so he'd KNOW something was up - but doesn't it hurt??

and about the thong thing - ME TOO!! LOL - I never know when he'll say "I'm coming home with you today after work" so I have to be ready! ;-)

I've lost about 5 pounds too and I just *feel* sexy.

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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:38am
I can't lie......the waxing isn't painfree but it's really not as bad as all that. I think this spring (I kinda went natural over the winter) I'll just do a regular bikini wax instead of Brazilian. Brazilian is where there is only a very, very thin vertical line of hair left (ala Playboy Bunny type) and believe you me....when you're on that table they search out EVERY stray hair....don't want to be too graphic but it sorta comical with all the contortions and positions you have to get in. I'm a fairly modest person and I still can't believe I've been waxed THERE!!!! LOL!!!!

Another change for me.......I ALWAYS have my cell phone on. If I around H I put it on silent or vibe because I don't really get many phones calls on cell except for MM. If I do turn it off and then back on it's usually a thrill and gives me a smile because I usually have a VM or text message from him.

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:41am

hi saturday and good luck with your surgery honey!

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 11:57am
I actually started changing before I met my MM...maybe that's what attracted him in the first place...who knows? I lost 25 pounds and feel incredible! I exercise reguarly and watch what I eat. I am into waxing now....everywhere. I make sure everything is looking good (and girls, you know what I'm talking about). I'm so happy (catch myself humming a lot) and feel sexually charged. I feel like a beautiful, sexy gal and am enjoying every minute of it. By the way, people at work have noticed the weight loss and my mood changes and 25 pounds is a lot....but the H has not noticed at all! Go figure.

And, though I am only 35 years old....I've had two kids....I could use a tummy tuck of my own! Ha Ha! Good luck with the surgery! Let us know how it goes!

Hugs!

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Registered: 10-13-2003
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 12:49pm

I don't know how long it lasts, since I'm pretty new to this, lol.

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 3:03pm
Right On Sister!! LOL! I feel the same way! I even approach people at work with a little more confidence - the "I've got a secret" thing electrifies my mood sometimes.
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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 3:22pm
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Good luck with your surgery, honey, and good for you! I am actually going to get a surgery of my own shortly....but in the chest region! I have had three kids and apart from them destroying my poor chest, I think I look pretty darn good. The thing was, once I got back down to my original size (after having my last child) H never even noticed! Then when I commented on "look how thin I am" or "I am back into a 5" his response would be "you are too full of yourself" or "if you look good you are just going to replace me" when all I really wanted to hear was "wow, you look great". MM thinks I am absolutely beautiful and tells me so...which is what I so needed to hear after having three kids at my age! I enjoy the attention I get from MM. I also find myself shaving more, dressing sexier, and wearing thongs all of the time. When someone tells you that you are beautiful and you have the confidence it shows! Have fun with your new tummy....I know that my man will have fun with my new addition!

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