changing life

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Registered: 03-04-2004
changing life
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Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:03am
A quick update for those with too much time and a raging sense of curiousity... LOL

Moving out has been pretty strange. I have almost nothing in my place, it's like living in a monastery. Which I really like.

This morning I was able to wake up in the bed of the OW. No sex, just stayed there to sleep last night. Ever share a bed with someone who "sleeps" different than you? Someone who has to stretch out and never touch, and maybe you're a touching person? Well, it's amazing to finally sleep with someone who matches up. OW has to touch, just a little, and we will completely ball ourselves up to fall asleep. It's amazing. I feel really close to her.

And moving out has made her so relaxed now. No more pressure, just enjoying what time we have. At the same time, the W is not driving me totally insane, realizes now this may or may not work out and that some work will be required on her part, not just assurances.

For my money... well, I'm pretty much broke and happy. Whatever happens will be be ok.

Thanks for everyone's support. It has meant a lot. And I'm not going anywhere for a while, so I hope that's ok.

rain

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:06am
Rain,

Keep your chin up and your thoughts positive....you made a big change and it seems to be working for you (making you very happy). It's wonderful to wake up in the arms of someone who loves you, who matches you...someone who fits. It's spectacular.

It's alright if you are broke...most of us are - LOL. Trust me...OW loves you for you (as you already know). We're here if you need us.

Take care and many, many (((HUGS)))!

NRY
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:13am
How wonderful for you. I'm so envious of you right now, but at the same time very happy for you.

You sound very content, and that's a great place to be.

As for sticking around, I hope you never leave.

Take care

Red

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Registered: 10-22-2003
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:15am
I'm glad things are going well for you! I had been wondering how you were doing so I was very happy to see your update. (Guess that means I have too much time on my hands??? LOL!!!) Please do stick around. Your experiences and input are invaluable.

GB2

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:20am
Sounds like things are looking up, Rain? And yes, I know what it feels like to fall asleep next to someone who matches up.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 12:06pm
I am jealous!! waaah! Enjoy you time with the OW.
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 2:26pm
Rain

You sound so content...

thats wonderful...

ENJOY!

MGT