Charting Ups and Downs in As

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Charting Ups and Downs in As
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Wed, 07-14-2010 - 4:48pm

OK so we can all see trends that most As seem to share.

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Registered: 04-06-2010
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 6:05pm

I can start from this Saturday 1- We had this big argument


Sunday 1-still fighting


Monday 1-still fighting


Tuesday 9 -Made up


Today 10- Happy as can be, but missing him


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 6:05pm

Despite my post a week ago about trying again to end things with AP, it has nothing to do with him or anything he's done, only the fallout from our d-day and seeing how it hurt H and not wanting to hurt anyone else.


I'd say for the last couple of weeks, I'd rate our A pretty close to a 10 everyday.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-08-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 12:13am

So, looking back on this week so far...(starting with Monday since we didn't see each other over the weekend)

Monday: 10
Tuesday: 9
Wednesday: 8.5

It went down a bit today since he was in a bit of a "down" mood due to the fact that he now has to wear an arm brace for the next 3-4 weeks. This will hinder his guitar playing (and our active sexual encounters! But that is me being selfish...) He injured his wrist several weeks ago when he fell on his motorcycle. Thankfully, it wasn't any worse! I gave him encouragement tonight and at the end of my visit, I did get a nice hug and a kiss...so I left today at that. ;)

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 6:44am

Oh cool idea Jane


Ok so Monday - 8 (even though he cancelled he had made a great birthday restaurant booking)


Tue- 8 (he flew OS but called)


Wed/Thu 5 - feeling ok but miss him as I prob wont hear from him for 2 weeks.


I think I hover between 3 and 8. 3 being those days that he's busy and has no time for me (squirrels tunnelling in) to 8 when he calls/texts and makes an effort. 10 on days he takes me too lunch or hotel. 1 on days I feel guilty or he seems distant and guilty.


Put me down as 5 every day until I hear from him.


Iggy


You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 06-01-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 2:16pm

I can give you several days...


Friday:

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 3:59pm

Good stuff so far, ladies!

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 6:07pm

I LOVE this idea Jane! I am going with new AP since with old AP (LOL!!!) it would pretty much be all 1's!!!


Monday - 10 - amazing chatting and webcamming.


Tuesday - 1 - Me tired and moody and wracked with guilt.


Wednesday - 10 - More amazing chatting, and reassurance about me asking deep questions the day before.


Thursday - 10 - great phone call - anticipating our first meeting tomorrow.


Friday - to come(LOL again!!!) Hoping it will be off the charts:-))))

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 8:36pm
Thursday: Downgraded to an 8 from a 10 all week.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 07-16-2010 - 10:50pm
Better put me down for a 1 today, jane.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 07-17-2010 - 1:46am

OK, I started the chart.

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