Cheating= Honesty, Loyalty, Love?
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Cheating= Honesty, Loyalty, Love?
| Fri, 04-02-2010 - 5:29pm |
rayne asked if we could love H/W and AP @ the same time?
we all do have different pov, depends on the situation i guess.
i'm in an EA, "an affair not going anywhere", i left W for my Ap.
i always give 100%, from start to finish, up to her to maintain it
If anybody, more so if a friend, relative, H/W cheats us,back stub us, when we expect honesty, loyalty, sincerity and dedication, can we say it is act of love
we all do have different pov, depends on the situation i guess.
i'm in an EA, "an affair not going anywhere", i left W for my Ap.
i always give 100%, from start to finish, up to her to maintain it
If anybody, more so if a friend, relative, H/W cheats us,back stub us, when we expect honesty, loyalty, sincerity and dedication, can we say it is act of love

Definately a good question IA.
My AP deleted me from FB because he was trying to make sure that W didnt ask about me as only friends and relatives are there. Its 6 of 1 and half dozen of the other IMO. He thinks hes protecting our R but I think sometimes hes saving his own skin to continue the cake-eating.
I do believe he loves me but getting the courage to either D for an uncertain future or stay in a so-so M where things are cruisy although unfulfilling is a hard call and not one I would want to make. If his W found out, I dont believe he would back stab or belittle me, but I am afraid that he would make it out to be less than it is so he doesnt look bad. If i ever found out that he was talking trash about me, that would be the end. Im a SW and dont need that.
Its a real balancing trick to decipher what is being deceitful and what is the truth in an A when the whole R is based on lying to ones S.
SB.
No EA will exist without lies.
Definitely ----->
No EA will exist without somebody wrongly loving someone
belonging to somebody