cheating w/ neighbor

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Registered: 07-23-2006
cheating w/ neighbor
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 3:01pm
I have a neighbor who is attractive and just seems to have it all, it started off with him texting me little nothings really and then led to flirting, then one night I felt the need to know for sure if it was just my imagination or not so I text him and said "CRUSH" and he replied the "same" and I was so scared because I already was loving the attention, so that following weekend I went to his house for a beer to pick up really quick and he kissed me I didn't really kiss him back but I loved it and couldn't wait til the next time, a week later I seen him and it was sheer passion he grabbed me and I him and we both couldn't wait to be intimate and it was so passionate its all I can think about, now I love the way it feels and the attention and the only thing holding me back is getting caught, I have alot to loose, I have a big beautiful home two kids a not so bad husband who just doesnt give me enough attention but I really can't say Im not happy or miserable I just love the way I feel right now any suggestions.
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Registered: 12-06-2007
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 4:06pm
Getting involved with a neighbor can get really messy.

 

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Registered: 01-12-2004
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 4:13pm

Hi -


Your situation is a lot like mine, only my neighbor and I have not had IC (but have done enough other things, and boy do I fantasize about having sex with him!).

 

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Registered: 07-23-2006
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 5:12pm
Thank you for responding, it just makes me feel better that Im not the only one with these emotions, I am glad to hear you haven't acted on yours though, I know it only makes things more difficult once you act, I was hoping I could make it a one time thing but my selfish desires get the best of me and I can only think about when the next time will be.
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Registered: 07-23-2006
Wed, 08-20-2008 - 5:16pm
Hey, he is single (divorced) and has his daughter every other week