Cheer him up

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Cheer him up
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Mon, 04-27-2009 - 2:42pm

What can I do for him?

 
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Registered: 04-21-2009
In reply to: posh04
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 7:02pm

Just be there for him & let him know-with words, too (lol) that you care & are willing to listen. IF you are, that is.


My AP goes thru same thing...stressful job in which can be brutal & play havoc with his health.


I just do my best to be a comfort to him, knowing full well he doesn't get that from his W. Not necessarily talking about sex here. Just try to do the little things that I know mean something, such as picking dinner up for us on our night instead of letting him buy & being a good ear.


Alot of times, men go into A's not just for the sex but also the companionship & caring (-just my experience & opinion.)


Since this is not just a PA with my A, I have no problem with helping him get thru the rough patches. He has done the same with me.