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Registered: 10-12-2003
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Tue, 11-11-2003 - 10:32pm
Cheshierfire:

I am sorry if I offended and / or insulted you but I think it is quite normal to be back and forth in an affair....and of course confused emotions. Perhaps, you need to stop judging others and look at the situation you're in. This is supposed to be a support board and yes I am in between ending and wanting to re-start my affair but thats my decision to make and if I choose to ask for others advice and opinions I can do so. If you don't agree with my opinions and or being on this board please tell me now or do not respond to my posts. I resent the tone in your post and from many of your other posts, I have come to realize that you need ask yourself what are you doing here?
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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 12:53pm
I would have to agree with xterra...the post was a little harsh.

We are entitled to be mixed up and go on a rant about a thousand thoughts and ideas that may be going through out head and this was the place we are supposed to do it with no critism.

I'd have to say i was taken back by the tone in the post and actually thought, thank god those words aren't directed toward me cuz i would crack with someone saying that to me.

Maybe you didn't mean to sound so harsh...if thats the case, let xterra know. She is going through enough as it is without any of us beating up on her as well.

Good luck xterra. i'll keep you in my prayers.

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 3:57pm
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Edited 10/1/2004 6:47 pm ET ET by sally289
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 4:22pm
now, now, it's not all sweetness and light on this board, all the time, is it. sometimes you have to hear the bitter truth from other perspectives in order to "get it!" maybe cheshierfire was a tiny bit harsh, but what do you expect, xterra, when you ask for advice for such a crazy situation that you're in?? obviously, some of the ladies on this board are not going to agree with or tell you what you want to hear.

we post it as we see it. and that's it!

gurl

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Registered: 07-27-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 10:03pm
xterra

Sometimes we all need a little reality check around here...please don't take it personally. I think everyone truly means well. Hang in there. I know this can't be easy for you.

Charlotte