A Child with AP...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2014
A Child with AP...
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Tue, 04-08-2014 - 3:17pm

Has anyone on this board had a child with their AP or know of someone who had a child with an AP? I know this woman who is married & has a 9 year old daughter.  Her H thinks she's his but she's not. The daughter was conceived by the AP and looks just like him. The woman and her H were trying to have a baby for years and it never happened until she met AP.

If you came out pregnant from your AP would you have the child?

 

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2014
Mon, 10-06-2014 - 6:19pm

I did and have a beautiful 18 month old. Got pregnant during separation from husband, things ended with AP during pregnancy...we've been no contact for 23 months. Reconciled with husband when my son was 3 months ans he is currently raising him as his own. I have been to hell and back!! Lol

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 05-12-2014 - 10:06pm

I did get pregnant by AP, and it was the end (or so I thought) of our A.  He was adament I "get rid" of it, and I was equally adament I would keep it.  H had a vasectomy years ago, so there's no way I could have pulled it off as being his.  I struggled for years with infertility, and was shocked when I conceived my son; there was no way I was not going to have this baby, even if it meant the end of my marriage.  I lost the baby at 8 weeks, and my cycles were so messed up that my husband never questioned anything.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 01-09-2014
Thu, 05-08-2014 - 3:19pm
It use to amaze me how people can live with certain secrets but not as much anymore. I mean there is still some shock value but I've come to learn that you will be surprised at the things you can learn to live with. I never thought I'd be in a 5 year affair but here I am and every year that goes by it just has me shaking my head. I don't think I'd ever be able to have my AP's child. I've done my share of wrong things but that one right there seems to be crossing all types of levels. I wouldn't want to have a child with someone under those circumstances either.
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Registered: 02-28-2014
Wed, 04-09-2014 - 2:13pm

Hi chasing! I know this lady who has her AP child too but she is single and to their friends they are a couple, he's leading two lives and the wife im sure has no clue about it. I personally would not have AP child, i would love to but not under the current circumstances.