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coincidence or not
| Tue, 09-16-2003 - 11:26am |
I had seen another post about signs, but has anyone had things like this happen. My MM and I have been with each other for over four and a half years. We both work at the same job, in the same section, and even started on the same day. He is five years older than me. My father used to have a second job as a security guard, and my MM used to work in the same building in the same years my dad was there. MM collects old toys and does toy shows. He's done them in the malls around my house. When we went for this medical questionare for our current job, he says that he remembers seeing me and even sat in back of me because he thought I was cute and he wanted to look. I don't remember this, but he did say a few things that I did that day. (Who I sat next to, people I was talking to). I remember seeing him at the orientation although he doesn't remember seeing me. I remember seeing him and thinking that he was really hot, and even almost sat next to him, but I was too shy. I keep wondering what would have happened if I did sit next to him that day. The day we actually started working the personel person picked out three people from the group. Me, my MM and someone else. Since then, we've been inseprable. First as friends then as lovers. Now, my question is, if I had really met him at one of these earlier times, does anyone think the attraction between us would still be the same.

MM (not married then) saw me with family at a nearby restaurant the very first day of registration for college. Then at a welcoming activity a few days later, I saw him and thought he was really cute, the only place left to sit was ironically next to him. We hit it off immediately, but didnt see each other for a few days. Then the first day of class I found out we had a class together. Due to a scheduling conflict he transferred to a different class and I didn't see him for about a week or so. One evening after my nap, I was going up the hall in the dorm and about bumped right into him on my way to the bathroom. We finally exchanged numbers and a couple nights after that I went to his dorm room and saw that we had a couple of the same pair of shoes (gym shoes, flip flops). The next year, my new roommate, a friend of hers and myself were all standing outside talking when these 3 guys walk up to us (MM was one of them). It turns out that the other 2 guys were the b/f's of my roommate and her friend. Now just recently I found out that a good friend of MM (who lives in the same state as I do, MM lives out of state) had gotten a divorce and had bought a new house in the same city where I live. So now MM has a legitimate reason to come my way and visit.