Conflicting emotions
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Conflicting emotions
| Wed, 06-10-2009 - 9:00pm |
I'm posting this here rather than the "Ending an Affair" message board because I haven't actually ended it...and I'm not sure that I want to.

Bottom line: GET OUT!
Trust me, the miserable pain and suffering that I have gone through in my affair was beyond any words to describe it. If you are single, it is going to be much, much more painful for you than if you were married. Think of all the lonely nights at home. Think of the times he's going to miss holidays and special occasions with you. Think of the times he'll be with his wife... i mean these things drove me insane and then some! It won't bother you in the beginning but give it time it will eat away at your soul.
Its your decision but i too would say get out when its new.
Yeah, he's married to a co-worker.
You are playing with 'fire'...and in this economy, jobs are hard to come by.