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| Sat, 09-27-2003 - 10:28pm |
I've noticed my boss (Darren) at work expressing an interest in me. There's a 13 year difference between us...I'm in my early 20's and he's in his late 30's and he is married with no kids. I've caught him looking at me several times over the past few months...I've known him for about a year now. The thing is, is that I have a huge crush on him....I really like him. Now something funny happened at work about a couple of months ago. Turns out that we both took the same days off. He joked about it in the morning around a couple of colleagues with him asking me "so what do you want to do". Then at the end of the day, when just about everyone was gone for the day, I went to his office to say good night.....we were pretty much alone, i said have a great weekend and began to walk away he then said "wait wait", and he asked me when i was off until, he already knew though (his voice cracked a little). He asked me again "so what do you want to do?" He is a really funny guy, he is my boss, but is completely a great guy...I'm guessing he was just joking when he said that. Both times when he asked me I answered "I don’t know"? With a smile... About a month later, i've been through a situation at work where I was sexually harassed by another co-worker with who i was really close with (he was like a dad to me). Darren was there to support me through the first week of where this happened to me... but then about 2 weeks later after this whole harassment hoopla died down, it seems like he distanced himself from me..and felt uncomfortable talking with me about this....I'm guessing he was busy and all....or he was just afraid to even come near me....things seem to have gone back to normal now, he seems to get a little nervous when we are alone. The other day he was joking with me about some guy he thought i liked, and that he thinks that i always look to see if a guy is married when i meet them. He was just joking around.. I just sense something weird..as I have caught him looking at me many times..he's really hard to read.. maybe i'm imagining this all.....but I really like him so much it hurts.. I think about him all the time.
