Confused

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Registered: 01-10-2007
Confused
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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 9:56pm
I'm feeling confused. AP & I have started IM'ing each other. It was only email for the last 2 years. IM is new though---a week I think. I saw him online tonight & the instant he signed on he signed off---he did this twice. He's been asking to get together, wanting to see me, very flirtatious, much more so than he'd been for a couple of weeks. I understand if he can't talk but then why sign into IM or why not say hey but I can't chat now? Why do guys do this stupid crap? And then why do I over analyze this crap?! I find myself picking apart every little thing that isn't going the way I want it to :( I want to be able to be more relaxed but I'm always so anxious about seeing him, hearing from him, etc. He emailed late last night flirting, now I kind of feel like he's ignoring me tonight as I haven't heard from him via email either. I don't know, I'm kind of blubbering here---LOL!
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Registered: 02-23-2004
In reply to: losingmyhead
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:49am
It is possible that he was not alone, saw you were on IM and signed off immediately so you did not talk to him and arouse suspicion.