Confused As Always

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Registered: 03-24-2006
Confused As Always
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Wed, 08-27-2008 - 8:14pm
I was just needing some input. This is my situation...I have been with MAP off and on for 5 years now we had a 2 year break inbetween. I am so crazy for him and we see each other at work quite a bit, fondle when we can and see each other about once or twice a month. He pulls away just like all other married men after seeing me which drives me crazy. He sometimes shows jealousy alot when someone else pays attention to me. I am just so confused in what he is thinking.. he has never said he loves me and i never asked him. I want to be the fun for him not a problem for him. I think about him constantly and i
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Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 8:50pm

After 5-years he would have done something to make you his permanently if he really wanted to. Is he telling you he's gonna leave his M some day for you? If no, or even if he did he has it good in both worlds for now so why change it. Sounds like he's just one of the many typical MM cake eater.

Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear.

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Registered: 03-24-2006
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 8:58pm
no he has never said he is going to leave his marriage and I haven't asked him too. He is very hard to talk to when it comes to how he really feels. What I am asking is does a guy really care if they have seen you for 5 years or do they just not feel anything at all? If they didn't care would they just go off and find someone else to have fun with?
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Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 9:18pm
He may care but NOT enough to make a difference in his life. He can take it because it's there and available or leave it if it causes him too much drama. And if you are trading body fluids with this guy you should not be hesitant to discuss everything under the sun with him. At least I think he owes you that much.
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Registered: 03-01-2008
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 8:32am

Jealousy, checking to see where you are, that stuff is very easy to translate in our minds into "Well of course he cares for me or else he wouldn't be bothered".

 

 

 

 

 

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