Confused and hurt

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Registered: 05-08-2009
Confused and hurt
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Fri, 05-08-2009 - 10:48am

Hello everyone!!


I just had to vent and get a few opinions on what happened between me and xAP.

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Registered: 11-12-2008
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:09pm
If the guy is EXAP ,then what he does/doesnt is not of much importance.The A is done.
" Christ this is more than I bargained for!"
To me it means that he was looking for a casual thing with a MW and nothing more.Sending texts when he wanted an ego boost.Since he stopped,he must be floating on top and will contact you again when he needs a jump start.
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Registered: 08-19-2008
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:23pm

How old is he? There's a reason why he's still single. If he is insinuating that you're clingy and needy but you're really not, then he's not a nice guy. He could also be one of those that only likes the thrill of the chase. Or, since he's single, maybe he found a nice single lady to spend his time with.

What you're experiencing is the "pitfall" of an A. Maybe now is a good time to re-examine why you keep putting yourself through it.

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Registered: 05-08-2009
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 1:34pm

I'm 31, he's 32.