Confused and hurting

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Registered: 02-26-2009
Confused and hurting
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Wed, 04-01-2009 - 3:02pm
This is my second post on this website and I decided this time I would give more information.

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Registered: 04-14-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 12:25am

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Registered: 02-26-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 12:22pm

Ok, I am going to try and answer as many questions and give as much feedback as I can.

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Registered: 02-26-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 3:09pm

Just some more questions to put out there:


If you have found something so special that people search their whole lives for, why do you push it to it's limit?

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Registered: 04-27-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 4:09pm

Those are some tough questions to answer, in fact, I can't answer the first one at all.


Why is it hard to put myself first?

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Registered: 04-18-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 12:05am

Evening all.


Passionate:


<J

Don't hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.       ~Anonymous
 &nb

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Registered: 03-07-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 1:05am

HS...


"...I thought these equaled love. But they sure didn't equal passion. And I want both. Selfish, huh?"


NO... not selfish in my opinion... It just sounds like you and H were two completely different people or at least grew to be two very different people.

maystone
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Registered: 04-14-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 6:32pm

Hello ladies~


Hope you are all having a good day so far.

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Registered: 03-07-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 9:47pm

Passionate.


"You've spent 13 years turning your nose up at that stuff and now expect me to feel as though you genuinely are interested?

maystone
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Registered: 03-07-2009
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 10:04pm

Hey Jen...just trying to catch up here! :)

maystone
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Registered: 04-18-2009
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 12:09am

Maystone,


Thanks for your kind words. I guess AP and I got so used to our spouses telling us how selfish we were that I started to apply it to everything in my life...not just the behavior in the A. itself (LOL).


<<I think finding someone you are on the same page with and also attracted to is just so rare...maybe that is why I couldn't or wouldn't ignore my feelings towards ap.

Don't hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.       ~Anonymous
 &nb

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