confused (sex affair)
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| Mon, 03-08-2004 - 10:46am |
while doing the deed, he's telling me that he doesn't want to have sex with his wife anymore all he wants is me. (I know in the heat of passion, you say anything, but he keeps on saying it)!! He says he thinks about me ALL the time and he has to take care of himself like 2-3 times a day!! (if ya know what I mean).. He says these things without being in the heat of passion too!! He calls one of my body parts his and his is mine!! He said we have a lot in common in what we want.. meaning sexually..
while we were driving back, his wife called on his cell phone and at the end of conversation she said I love you and he said I love you too.. then after he hung up he goes "right" like rriight (you know what I mean).. and says but all I think of is you!!!
I don't know why he said that, maybe he was embarressed he had to say I love you too with me being there.. but I know he must love her.. so why did he said that.. it's not like we love each other.. just sex right? or is it more? and that's his way of saying? I have no idea.. I'm confused.. I'm getting a little vibe that he feels more, but I just don't know..
I can't help but keep trying to analize this.. I know I should just enjoy everything we do, but I think of him constinalty and can't stop.. I know it's gonna hurt if we ever stopped!! But he said he wants to keep this going forever..LOL.. I said fine with me..LOL
it's been a little over a year now..
so what do you all think???? help me..lol
chrissluver

hey chris -- honey, you are progressing very fast in this R/A from "just sex" to emotional intimacy with MM and he with you.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
does it sound like he has a little feeling for me than just sex? it IS confusing...............................................................
hey chris -- of course he has "feelings" for you or he wouldn't be saying that you two should have been married, etc.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
I think based on the things that are being said by this MM, he is gaining some level of excitement from saying them. Does that mean he does or doesn't have feelings for you? I honestly don't know. But I wouldn't assume that he loves you based on this. He absolutely cares for you though. That's obvious in the fact that he tried to cover up the "I love you too" to his wife.
I agree with the other people here, try to keep your own emotions in check and try to enjoy it for what it is. If it progresses down the road, you can deal with that then.
chrissluver