Considering It!?

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Considering It!?
5
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 1:24pm

...since I seem to be getting no where in improving this marriage - and I'm not sure divorce isn't going to make it all worse, anyway....

Maybe it would provide me with what I can't seem to get in my marr.

Too bad I have no prospects right now....

Worth It?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2009
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 3:17pm
IMO....no, it's not. It's not worth the time or the mental/emotional drain.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 3:19pm

Hi picketyfence ~ Welcome,


I'm sure you're going to hear this a lot in response to your question, so I'm going to just go ahead and beg you to not do this thing. Resolve your marriage issues first, if you can.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 6:27pm

OK so I am probably in the minority here but here's my 2cents worth cause I was where you about 3 months ago. I say go for it!! It has been the best and worst few months. I have fallen for AP but it's been fun! But it takes work and you need a support person, these ladies and guys are great here! Find a friend you can trust and share! It helps!! And let us know if you need more help!

M

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Sat, 10-24-2009 - 12:27pm

I'm with Mom and I have to say I'm glad to see there's at least someone with this opinion still on this board! For me A's are the bomb. I am high energy and easily bored and 'regular life' is so drab ... the A's keep me pumped. I know it's not for everyone. But I can't imagine what life would be if I'd never done it and I think everyone should try at least once.

Just my .02

-jana

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Registered: 04-17-2009
Sat, 10-24-2009 - 7:37pm

Please listen to Benska.......she is the only sane response on this thread.