i feel a slight sense of relief. om's brother emailed me back. said he hadn't heard from om since he moved and when om contacts him he will let om know that i want him to call me. he was really nice..and pretty funny in his email. asked me if i was located near om. if i were then i could stop by om's work and visit him. when i said where i lived he said...well that would be quite a long walk. lol.
I noticed in another one of your posts you said you sent an email saying you give up. Have you sent him anything since then or just made this contact with his brother? I also sent my MM a text msg saying 'ball's in your court' but i feel like i need to set the record straight about some of the other things i've said in other msgs cause i feel he's probably taken me the wrong way & thinks i want more from him than i do. He took me the wrong way once before & we didn't speak for about 4 months & he promised this time that he would talk to me if i said something he wasn't sure about. I don't know wether to try & set the record straight or leave the ball in his court. I feel like i'm ready to move on if that's what he wants but i just need a chance for him to understand what my msgs meant.
He has also moved away but we never got the chance to say goodbye & i've heard nothing since he left. I'm fairly sure he at least as intermittent phone coverage so he should have been able to at least send a quick msg saying he'd call when he could but instead i've heard nothing. We talked about the distance between us being a problem but that it wasn't going to stop us talking & seeing each other when we could but no contact at all is really hard cause i don't know if he's simply changed his mind or taken me the wrong way. So i can see why you would be worried about sending him too many msgs saying how upset you are cause it could be nothing like the thoughts going thru your mind and he could just be so busy he hasn't had a chance yet to make contact. But when even the slightest contact makes all the difference its the least they could do. Just one small thing to let you know where you stand. If its over that's all they need to say & if its not then just a quick msg to say call you when i can but don't know how long.
i have sent him an email since..letting him know how i've been feeling about this NC. I don't know that it could truly ever end between he and i. we do have a lot of things to talk about, especially if he is serious about us being together.
at this point though, i almost feel as if i've created him because we haven't talked for 4 weeks.
Edited 9/20/2004 1:56 pm ET ET by seansluv
He has also moved away but we never got the chance to say goodbye & i've heard nothing since he left. I'm fairly sure he at least as intermittent phone coverage so he should have been able to at least send a quick msg saying he'd call when he could but instead i've heard nothing. We talked about the distance between us being a problem but that it wasn't going to stop us talking & seeing each other when we could but no contact at all is really hard cause i don't know if he's simply changed his mind or taken me the wrong way. So i can see why you would be worried about sending him too many msgs saying how upset you are cause it could be nothing like the thoughts going thru your mind and he could just be so busy he hasn't had a chance yet to make contact. But when even the slightest contact makes all the difference its the least they could do. Just one small thing to let you know where you stand. If its over that's all they need to say & if its not then just a quick msg to say call you when i can but don't know how long.
at this point though, i almost feel as if i've created him because we haven't talked for 4 weeks.