continue the A or what??

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2009
continue the A or what??
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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 10:25pm
What if I said I have had an A for on and off 10 years?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2005
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 11:01pm

go ahead and vent. you are in the right place. but i have no advice tonight - only questions.

it would be nice if you could find the love you once had for your H. you said he's a great man. is it possible to reconnect?

or do you actually enjoy the roller coaster and find the day-to-day of your M to be kinda boring?

(personally, i'm not into drama so the roller coaster would be too risky - but i am into passion so the tilt-a-whirl is all the thrill i need. compared to the carrousel that is my M - pretty but lonely and repetitive.)

my guess is you will find stories here to let you think through both sides of this decision. sharing more of your story will help.

glad you found us so you're not so lost,
Mrs.