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|Sun, 11-25-2012 - 12:26am|
Well, papers didn't get signed. She came back with a ridiculous demand (lifetime support) so they went back into discussions. Supposed to get them drawn up this coming week. He finally talked to all of his kids. One isn't handling it too great but the others weren't really surprised or bothered. He's not sure if she told them all about me but he does know at least one knows since she made a snarky remark about me in front of one of them.
And I didn't get to move in on the 23rd. The guys decided to go ahead with remodeling the bathroom and were way outside of their ability I think. I do have some of the house set up but no water or heat yet.
We're doing great though. We had a slight rough patch when he went to sign papers and got hit with her ridiculous demand. He froze up on me in text so I told him I was on my way out to my new house and he could come over. He showed up and thawed immediately. I think it helped drive home the fact that we both have to keep talking to each other. I love this guy more every day and it always amazes me that loving him more is even possible. The way his eyes light up when he sees me just sets my heart flying. He's goofy and sweet. I'm laughing and smiling so much that I have new wrinkles. I told him this is his sly way of trying to make me look older. He just replied with something so off the wall, I couldn't help but laugh.
He told our supervisor at our volunteer job. He shook Cowboy's hand and told him congratulations. I told my boss and she had all sorts of questions, including "is he a good kisser?" Haha. The girls at the ranch were thrilled (one said it was the best news she ever heard). Cowboy even called my boss after I talked to her to make sure that she was okay with it and that I wasn't going to get fired. She told me that he said that he was crazy about me and couldn't imagine life without me. Awww.
He went with me to get my new bed and mattress, pick out linens and kitchen stuff. It felt so good to be out in public with him and not have to hide. He even went shopping today while I was out of town and found me a cute little table.
We haven't told the kids that I'm moving out yet. BUT I had a great conversation with my oldest about my brother's ex girlfriend (they broke up because her kids didn't want her dating anyone after she divorced their dad) and she said she didn't think it was fair to expect someone to be alone forever and if they're happy, the kids should have an open mind. I'm not sure she'll feel that way about ME but boy that was a relief to hear.