Crazy

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Tue, 12-23-2003 - 2:58pm
I'm not really confused - just needed to vent for a second. I have no complaints other than I won't have a lot of contact with MM for the next two weeks. The holidays, you know! So "they" have a house full of people visiting, so his only way to call will be when he escapes for errands in the car - and like he said last night, that will likely mean others will want to escape the holiday house too!! It's just frustrating when you talk to someone every single day and they can tell you about their day or a funny story or whatever - to not have that daily will bug me. I suppose I'll just adjust, but it's still the principal of the thing.....thanks for listening. I'm sure my "weenie" complaint is nothing compared to what others are going through. Stay busy - it's my plan to adjust and not think about it!!

I hope you all have a fabulous holiday season!!

Jill

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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 3:03pm
No, yours is not a weenie complaint, its a big complaint of mine - forever - not just the holidays. I don't get to see the MM as much I would like to - I knew what I was getting into beforehand - so what am I complaining about?? I wanted to vent with you, that's all.
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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 3:04pm
No problem you know you can come here to vent all you want! How the heck are you? Long time no see. NMR
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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 3:29pm
Oops, Jill! If I had half a brain I'd be dangerous. I forgot we chatted the other day:) NMR
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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 3:41pm
yes, j, we all have those little aggravations, don't we?

you've got a good plan to stay busy and enjoy the holiday!

Merry Christmas and Happy 2004 to you and yours!!

gurl




Edited 2/18/2004 12:05:36 PM ET by gurlfriend50
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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 9:16pm
I'm venting with you too!!

It sucks not to be able to talk during this time. He has a house full of vistors also.

I miss him so much already, :(! But, I guess we just have to suck it up like everything else.
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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Wed, 12-24-2003 - 8:24am
HOLIDAYS SUCK!!!! LOL

Actually, if it weren't for them being so busy I would have a terrible time dealing with the NC period that naturally comes with every holiday. I dont talk to my OM everyday but rarely have 2-3 days pass without atleast a phone call. During the holidays it extends to 5-6 days of NC at a time.

Thank God for prozac this time of year...BA-HUMBUG!!!!

cl-liberalgirl

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: jpcstpaul
Wed, 12-24-2003 - 9:03am
We're all going through the same thing right now, so at least we're going through it together! I know what you mean about the stories. Last night I kept thinking about all the things I wanted to tell MM about what happened to me, but I realized that by the time we get back together all I'll be giving him was a summary of my holiday. :-( I've told people here before -- maybe you should try writing notes to him. Tear them up afterward or whatever, but write about your day or whatever you want to say. That'll help.

Is anyone else counting down the days until you can see MM/OM again? When today's over, I plan to say, "Just ELEVEN more days!!!"

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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Wed, 12-24-2003 - 11:58am
I'm good - and hope you are the same!!

I think it's a weenie complaint that I'm bitching about no contact - it just isn't easy, but I know I'm not alone.

How are things going for you? Have you talked to Dream/Angel lately? It's been a long time since I've heard from her - probably doesn't help that I've changed job since we last spoke so I'm not even sure she has my new location...

I hope you have a great holiday!! Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year!!

Let me know what's going on - I'd love to hear! Take care!!

Jill

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In reply to: jpcstpaul
Wed, 12-24-2003 - 12:01pm
Pass the Prozac!!

Ha ha!!

I know - it will be difficult, but I'll manage to get through - I still have to work next week, so that will be a distraction. Oh well, part of the gig, is it not?!

Have a great holiday!!