crazy life..

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Registered: 06-29-2008
crazy life..
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Sun, 01-11-2009 - 4:22pm

I have been with dh for 11 1/2 years, we have 2 kids and have been married for

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Registered: 08-19-2008
In reply to: pincesfiona
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 6:11pm

>>>"I really should see a shrink but found this board and decided to ask you. Please give me your input."<<<

Pleaseeeee, go see that shrink. No one here can help you like a professional can. You don't sound like you're happy in your situation and all this sleeping around between you and your H is not healthy. As you're already seeing the effects in yourself and as you said feeling like a prostitute, this is eating up at your self esteem and dignity. That cannot be good.

I would also suggest MC for you and your H just to see if there's something there that can be salvage.



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In reply to: pincesfiona
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 6:48pm

You are right about the shrink (although I probably won't really see one..lol) I do need to consult with one. However I am happy with my dh and I know eventually we will overcome this and get it together. I have very strong will power and can do wonders when I really try... like I said I went a while without cheating when I got married.. I also have managed to quit smoking cold turkey after 11 1/2 years.. so I think I can do anything I want and that includes loving my body, my marriage, my sanity... and with God's help I will overcome this... I pray on it and have faith that it will happen...


thanks for responding...


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Registered: 08-19-2008
In reply to: pincesfiona
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 6:53pm
Well then, you'll be in my prayers too....


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