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| Sun, 01-11-2009 - 4:22pm |
I have been with dh for 11 1/2 years, we have 2 kids and have been married for
| Sun, 01-11-2009 - 4:22pm |
I have been with dh for 11 1/2 years, we have 2 kids and have been married for
>>>"I really should see a shrink but found this board and decided to ask you. Please give me your input."<<<
Pleaseeeee, go see that shrink. No one here can help you like a professional can. You don't sound like you're happy in your situation and all this sleeping around between you and your H is not healthy. As you're already seeing the effects in yourself and as you said feeling like a prostitute, this is eating up at your self esteem and dignity. That cannot be good.
I would also suggest MC for you and your H just to see if there's something there that can be salvage.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
You are right about the shrink (although I probably won't really see one..lol) I do need to consult with one. However I am happy with my dh and I know eventually we will overcome this and get it together. I have very strong will power and can do wonders when I really try... like I said I went a while without cheating when I got married.. I also have managed to quit smoking cold turkey after 11 1/2 years.. so I think I can do anything I want and that includes loving my body, my marriage, my sanity... and with God's help I will overcome this... I pray on it and have faith that it will happen...
thanks for responding...
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson