Creepy but attractive...

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Registered: 03-01-2011
Creepy but attractive...
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Thu, 08-09-2012 - 4:29am

I feel like I might be heading into the danger zone. New guy actually did chase me down and wants me and he's very open in the IC department...he wants to teach me a few things and all this IC talk that is very bad boy. He's extremely attractive which makes him hard to resist but at the same time I don't know if this guy is a serial killer or what.

I want to get over AP. I told new guy that's what I want. New guy said something about me forgeting my own name by the time he's done. It all seems a bit much. I know I had an AP and all but I'm still kind of innocent in some ways. Should I give this a go and see if I can knock my AP out of this brain of mine? BTW even though AP has not contacted me I'm starting to feel like he might soon. All the usual signs are there...the pre-contact posts on FB etc. I miss AP but I know he's a jerk. UGH. AM I REPLACING ONE JERK WITH ANOTHER!?

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Registered: 05-29-2012
Thu, 08-09-2012 - 9:41am
Agree with sireanita. This new guy seems to only want sex and no strings attached. Which doesn't seem to be what you're looking for.
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Registered: 05-09-2012
Thu, 08-09-2012 - 11:29am
Oh Blue....I saw this earlier this morning and had to think on this. It's so easy to fall back into a habit, but don't let yourself. You are replacing your XAP with this new guy. Your title says creepy, if he gives you that sort of first impression I'd stay as far away as possible. I'm creeped out just by reading your post about him. You said in an earlier post you wanted to feel desired, we all do. But are you will to feel desire for as long as this new A last until you start feeling heartbroken and blue again?