Crossed the line....

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Registered: 02-22-2009
Crossed the line....
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Tue, 05-05-2009 - 4:59pm

Ugh.. what was I thinking. Went away for the weekend with my AP, and it was a great weekend. Well Sunday we all drank all day by the pool and into the evening. It was late in the evening and we were playing "I never" at the end my friend went to bed and AP admitted to me that he broke the rules.......... I looked at him and asked what rules? He said, I broke the rules and fell in love! So, it would seem ladies and gentlemen that my A has just crossed the line from PA to EA. I'm in uncharted territory for myself.


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Registered: 01-13-2009
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 7:27pm

Hi S,

Good for you that you had a great weekend with your AP and friend as well.(lucky goose lol) My AP and I have recently admitted to each other we have fallen in love and yes, it is un-chartered territory for me as well. whew....scary stuff. Is that why I sense some trepidation to your post?

Anyway, I don't have any bone tingling advice to provide, I just wanted to chime in my 2 cents and say hooray for happiness wherever you can find it.




Edited 5/5/2009 7:28 pm ET by heavennhell
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Registered: 03-19-2009
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 7:37pm

Long long time ago, when my OM and I began our relationship, we foolishly thought we could do the FWB thing only, no love. But in time we did fall in love. That does change everything. for example, if we were just FWB now, and he became single, which he just recently has, and I could not handle that fact, I believe it would be rather easy to end the affair.But because I am in love with him, it is incredibly hard to figure out what to do.


Put on your seatbelt...its going to be a bumpy ride!!!

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Registered: 02-22-2009
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 12:09pm

Oh Hobbi


It would seem we are in similar situations. My AP has been separated for 5 months now. Seriously separated, bought his own home, and I have helped him decorate it etc.. He is now the one who is becoming single and now has these feelings for me, and honestly, I have to admit to myself and yes now everyone here that I have feelings for him.