Crossed the line

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Crossed the line
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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 1:10am
I haven't posted for awhile - I've had to share a computer with H and have been paranoid about him finding out where I've been on the internet.

Last night MM came down to see me at a conference I'm attending for the weekend. I was very adamant over the past month that we would not cross the line - it was fine to play, but there would be no sex. We had talked about it lots, and I had fantasized about often. Our "play time" had been getting more intense lately, and last night we did cross the line. I have to say that I know I should be feeling guilty, but I'm not. It was an amazing evening! I don't want to go into detail (that's for another board) but he was so attentive. I've never had anyone spend so long (almost 4 hours) just experiencing and enjoying being with me. I don't regret it, but the problem is that now I want it more! And finding the time and place for sex is much more difficult than finding a quick 5 minutes to make out at work somewhere. I'm worried that now we are going to take more chances and get caught.

Which brings me to the other problem - I'm at this conference with a coworker and MM & I tried to sneak him into the hotel, but it backfired and we ran right into our coworker. The conference is 2 hours from where we all live, so there was no way to try and explain it away. We didn't address it last night, and when I tried to talk to my coworker this morning he said it was a "non issue" and dismissed it.

Anyone else been caught by a coworker?

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Mon, 01-19-2004 - 1:22am
My MM and I work in sales for the same company, different territories, and live about 3 hours from each other. He told his best friend, another sales rep that we work with so one person in the company knows about us. We meet at conventions and in different cities and constantly go out of our way to not get caught by coworkers. We have not been caught yet. He is terrified of getting caught by other coworkers that might tell his W.